The past is over, the future is yours for the making
I help newly divorced adults clear out the wreckage of their past and build a road forward into their new lives.
Relationship Counseling, Divorce Discernment Counseling, Divorce and Post Divorce Therapy
My clients struggle as you do. Despite being intelligent, hardworking, and caring, divorce blows up your life. When they first come in, my clients often don't know who they are anymore. They feel like they had to give up on their dreams and ambitions during marriage, and are uncertain how to reclaim them. Their carefully laid plans for the future have been destroyed and they are grieving the hopes and dreams they had for their future. Everything is coming apart at the seams and they often feel that it is all their fault.
Is Divorce Therapy for You?
It is so hard to come home to an empty house, wondering how they got there. They are on their own for the first time in years. It’s been so long since they could pursue their own interests without compromise, they have no idea where to begin or what their interests even are anymore.
Often, they panic when thinking about dating again. They feel like damaged goods, worrying that no one will want them now, or that every relationship will be doomed to fail. Some even fear that they are unworthy of love.
They struggle to keep it together for their kids. They want to model healthy relationships, emotions and behaviors, yet feel overwhelmed by anger, shame and grief. Many find it difficult to co-parent with their ex, and struggle to maintain civility with their former spouse.
The turmoil around their divorce gets in the way of the life they want in so many ways: they don't know who they are anymore, they aren't the kind of parent they want to be, they feel like they are failing at life, and their confidence in themselves has been shattered. Before they came to see me, they feared they would never get their lives back on track. They worried they were doomed to repeat their failures and they simply cannot see a way forward.
Divorce Therapy Can Help!
Like my clients, you deserve to feel whole again.
Divorce Therapy can help you feel like yourself again.
Finding joy again is not out not out of your reach.
Therapy for Divorce will put happiness within your grasp.
When divorce shakes up the snow globe of your life, and all the pieces of your life are flying around everywhere, you could use a little help. With Divorce Therapy, together we can put the pieces back together, in a better, stronger, more fulfilling way.
If you want to embrace your newfound independence, chart your own path forward, and rebuild a meaningful life for yourself and your family, I'd love to help you get there.
Please contact me. You don't have to suffer, I can help.
Hi! I’m Chalon.
I focus on working with clients rebuilding their lives after divorce. Divorce is devastating, but after a fire, new life emerges, and that new life can be glorious.
I am doing the work that I love, being of service to others, listening to their stories, helping them through the difficult times and walking with them on the road to a happier, healthier and more meaningful life.
I would be honored to walk this path with you!
My Services
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In-Person Therapy
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Online Therapy
A Welcoming, Safe Space
My office is a calm, colorful space for you to feel safe, take time for yourself, and express yourself in a confidential, supportive environment.
In-Person and Online Therapy
My office is conveniently located in Pasadena, California. Can’t make it in person? No problem, I offer tele-therapy anywhere in California.